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11/30/2014

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Speaking to new writers (and old ones who might be a little stuck) I’m starting with observations from my psychology credentials before we get into my writing credentials. My friend and editor/publisher, Nelson Ottenhausen, once told me that, “Writer’s block is when your imaginary friends stop talking to you.” I love that one. But today I want to ask what might fill that space left between your ears when those friends go quiet.

Year after year I learn new things about virtually everything. I’m cursed with a rampant curiosity about the universe that surrounds me for this short time we have. My opinions and viewpoints undergo tremendous and sometimes outlandish changes as I listen to others, study where they come from and, yes, even try new things. Open-mindedness to me is the most critical character element of anyone who wants to grow—not just to be. The most expensive thing a person can own is a closed mind—it shuts out opportunities, stimulation and even pleasure. Conversely, growth and success, however you want to define it, find nurture in an open mind. Take a real deep breath right now. Feel the difference? Open-mindedness is a deep breath for the soul.

An exercise to strengthen open-mindedness is focusing on things that really bug you, that you really object to, or that “tick you off” when you see or hear them. We humans have a tendency to build our highest mental walls around our greatest weaknesses. When we keep our mind closed up tight we will play this defense strategy in all aspects of our daily lives. When you get to this place—you lose.

So when something you see on the news or read on Facebook really bothers you, set aside your negative emotions and really focus on that thing with an open mind. Perhaps you just heard something very important that will solve a problem you’ve had or set you in a new direction—or it can also reinforce your original belief with new data and foundation. And you win.

Every day we think about how we look, we think about what we’ll say—but do we think about what we think about? Think about that! Seriously, think about what we’re thinking about when we see or hear that thing that set us off. If you’re saying, “What if …,” that’s fear speaking. If you’re saying, “They shouldn’t …,” that’s anger speaking—and fear or anger destroys you. Open the mind, your mind, and listen to what you say to yourself so you can decide if you need to make room for new stuff that will make you a happier person.

Have a great week—and send in those thoughts of yours.

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It's the Holidays

11/25/2014

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Just a short post to wish all of you a VERY HAPPY THANKSGIVING.
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Still Getting My Bearings

11/22/2014

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Since the first blog posting I have been traveling. During the trip to Monterey, California I spent treasured time with a life long friend I haven't seen (and actually lost track of for a bit) in nearly 40 years. A great reunion--and at our age we won't be out of contact again. I also heard from a young lady of sixteen who is working hard to be a writer. Believe me the way she writes her letter she is going to be a good novelist--phrasing, vocabulary, etc., done exquisitely
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HERE WE GO .....

11/16/2014

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This is my first post on my first Blog on my new website. I know you'll all be patient with a newby! I want to write about writing as we go along and your comments or questions will help direct me. One question I get quite often is, "Where do you get ideas for a book?" A great question and a good place to start.
Ideas for books come from everywhere. Now that is not a very deep answer--but it is true. Often I will begin with the germ of an idea ... kind of a what if this happened to ... My first book, Code Name: ORION'S EYE, began as a writing project for my studies with the Long Ridge Writers Group. Taking the WWII event of the sinking of the troopship SS Cape San Juan I thought about what if the Nazis were trying to steal the secret radar equipment she carried? Then created some characters from my own past life ... and pretty soon a story began to grow.
So far I haven't answered your question in any depth. But we're just beginning. If you are a newby writer, or want to be one, post something for me to talk about that will help you.
That's it for this first venture into blogdom.
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    Retired Business Exec who made a career in organizational development and personal improvement counseling and teaching around the world. Now, for the past ten years, I write novels. I've had great teachers and role models and I want to share what I've learned with you. 

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